KOTW: Biting

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Biting … OMG yes, bite me!  Recently Sir nibbled on my ass and I remembered how much I have loved biting and I have been mulling this over in my head.  Biting is just another one of those deeply hidden fantasies of my 30-odd years as a vanilla person.  During the course of those uninspiring years, there were so many occasions where I simply wanted my vanilla partner to stop being such a wuss and bite my damn nipple!  I can only blame myself since I never communicated to my partner my need for a nice, sharp nip because … well simply good girls didn’t do such things.  I wonder where I got these ideas that clashed with all my liberated ways?  But as I discussed in Fantasies, communication on my part destroyed other necessities of my sexual dreams.

As I contemplate those years now, the frustration I felt when a partner didn’t nibble, bite, or attempt to chew me down to nothing is a source of irritation now.  Of course, it was the pain I desired but only now I know this.  I still dream of being eaten alive, almost like a holy communion of sorts, but now the need is replaced by that deep submissive bliss of surrender to a speck in Sir’s mind.  I assume it is the totality of incorporation of my being inside another’s that attracts me and wishes I would meet Hannibal on the street.   The ultimate cage with no escape, perhaps?

In reality, I do not wish to actually be eaten but there are still those thoughts of my vanilla years and being so excited watching a girl in a hot tub with carrots and other vegetables swimming along side her with the gleeful diners looking on.  I saw this on Twilight Zone in my pre-teen years and it has been there ever since tormenting me with its erotic tug.  I do not find hickeys erotic but discrete bite marks are like brands left behind to claim ownership and are nice to look at just as all the marks Sir leaves on my body are.  It is the tooth marks since then I can imagine a whole bite taken out of me and enjoyed with a nice glass of wine.

It is good I don’t live near any cannibals and I try not to read more into my dark thoughts then needs to be.  Since meeting Sir, my desire to be bitten have been superseded by so many other toys and sensations that I forgot biting existed until Sir bit me that day.  And then I bit him back.

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bonimiss only found her kinky side in her early 50s and thankfully found Sir shortly after. She is is a long distance journey with Sir and is constantly amazed at the new and exciting experiences and discoveries. You can contact her at bonimiss through the Submissive Guide Community.
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8 Responses to KOTW: Biting

  1. bonimiss says:

    I wonder if it is related to groups such as Primal Play – The Animal Within on Fetlife? I had never heard of this concept before this week.

  2. Molly says:

    I think there is something very basic and primitive about biting

    Mollyxxx

  3. bonimiss says:

    Found it! Tales from the Darkside, “Anniversary Dinner”, season 1, episode 14, aired 2/3/1985.

  4. bonimiss says:

    It might have been Night Gallery also. Both shows scared me and gave me nightmares. So funny now.

  5. Sammi says:

    I am going to have to go look up that Twilight Zone episode – I don’t think I’ve ever seen it! Great post :-)

  6. I love the dark and honest tone from you. Such a beautiful description of spiritual, of being in someone. And I haven’t seen that Twilight, but the lasting image that you found erotic certainly speaks volumes about this kink.

  7. Mia says:

    I love that you love to be bitten hard, for me it doesn’t work, I prefer lighter nibbles to actual bites. I just love the diversity of the Kink world!!

    ~Mia~ xx

  8. SassyCat says:

    Wowzers! :)
    I read somewhere about a fetish that involved being eaten alive. I had never heard of it. I think I can understand just a little bit. However I would be on the other side. I would want to bite someone that hard. Just once to see how it feels, in my mouth, on my tongue. Not do actually eat them. I don’t even know how to explain how or what I feel it’s like if I bite someone it’s like having them “in” me more on a spiritual connection. strange.
    Enjoyed reading your post.

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